Compliments can be tricky to navigate. It’s nice when a friend or relative gives you a well-meaning compliment. Congrats on your new job! That dinner you cooked was phenomenal! Way to hustle on the court! Then there are the “compliments” that come from outsiders—those not within your circle of trust. These range from getting hit on at bars or via dating apps, and of course, catcalls on the street. How do you react to these? Well, one popular feminist decided to put it to the test, and now she’s tweeting about what happens when you accept a compliment from a man.

Feminista Jones, a social worker, activist, and author of Push the Button, is also well-known feminist and Twitter user. And she recently tweeted out the following message:

Jones breaks it down further in the following tweets: