The Joy A Soccer Ball Brings To Kids In Darfur Is Unbelievable – And Makes Me Think Our Kids Lack Perspective

After reading the most amazing story in the New York Times today, I am reminded of how important it is to constantly remember how lucky I am, and teach my children to count their blessings. Also, if I ever hear another chorus of “I’m bored” from the children in my life again – I am going to freak out.

When Tim Janigen, an Engineer from Berkeley California, saw a documentary about children in Darfur who found some comfort and happiness playing soccer with balls made out of garbage and string – he was inspired to help build a more durable toy. It turns out the kids were resorting to these materials because the balls donated by relief organizations would usually deflate within 24-hours – owing to the harsh terrain they played on. Kicking a ball provided the children a joy that was impossible to come by – and they would “play with practically anything that approximated a ball.”

My toddler has a room full of toys, and some days he can’t find one that holds his interest. My stepdaughter regularly complains of “being bored” when she visits, even though she is flanked by every modern luxury and convenience you can think of to keep her happy and occupied. The thought of children in war-torn parts of the world being so desperate for solace that they can imagine a toy into any trash they find in the street, not only breaks my heart – it makes me think that I have to work really hard to make sure my kids understand perspective – and how lucky they are.

This story reminded me how important it is to teach our children about the way other children around the world live – and the circumstances they have to endure. It is also a reminder that one person can make a huge difference in the lives of many. Mr. Janigen – funded by Sting (yes, the singer) – created a prototype of a ball that is basically indestructible. It is made of the same type of durable plastic that is found in Crocs. It is a solid mass, that never deflates. The NYT reports that “by his estimate, the ball can last for 30 years, eliminating the need for thousands of hand-sewn leather balls that are typically donated by relief agencies.” One man’s inspiration and drive made that happen. Pretty inspiring.

It is unbelievable that most children in this country could give you a laundry list of things that they want – even though their bedrooms probably resemble an independent toy store. Learning about how children in the roughest of circumstances can find joy could do wonders for our kids.