The standard postpartum wisdom is to wait six weeks after having a baby to attempt P-in-the-V sex. Of course, if your hormones are raging, and youâre raring to go, you can talk to your doctor about your specific circumstances. Many doctors confirm that six weeks is just a guideline to help a new mom heal and make her feel more comfortable. But I highly doubt that any doctor would condone getting it on in the delivery roomâjust a few hours after popping out your kid. More
Sex is a HOT topic in the Christian community, to put it lightly. Again, my perspective doesnât encompass all churches and all denominations, but I have âgotten aroundâ in the Christian circle. I think itâs fair to say that many, many people in the Christian community believe sex and especially masturbation to be wrongâin a certain context, outside of marriage. More
If you say you don’t love Chipotle so much that you wouldn’t have sex on the roof of one then you are totally lying to me, because Chipotle means a lot more than just casual Mexican food to go and pretty decent tortilla chips, it also means SEXY TIME. At least it does according to this couple who were busted getting busy on the roof of a Chipotle located in Newark, Delaware. More
I have a personal, dorky question that will once and for all expose me for the thirteen-year-old perv that I am on the inside. I want to talk to you about your sex life, big time. More
I can fully endorse the fact that itâs really hard to find time to have sex as a new parent. And as a not-so-new parent. And even as an older parent, I assume. In case you havenât heard, parenting is a massive time-suck and libido-drain. Having kids is the highlight of my life, but this joyous endeavor takes up 24 hours of the day. Once you beg and plead for your infant children to start sleeping through the night, youâre so exhausted by 7 PM that all you want to do is watch Netflix on your laptop with one eye open and then go to sleep. More
We all know it takes two to tango. However itâs hard to deny that by nature most of the âthinking about baby makingâ falls to the woman. But men arenât immune to the whole process, right? Right?? More
Pregnant sex was one of my least favorite things. Sure, my husband and I managed to keep things regular throughout both of my pregnancies, and we generally had a good time. But in retrospect, sex after the baby was made was far less fun than the sex that made the baby in the first place. More
So a âvacation from getting pregnantâ is a great idea if youâve been at this for a little awhile. You donât necessarily have to go anywhere either if thatâs too hard. But just putting a designated mental âtimeoutâ on the process can be healthy for everyone involved. Even just for a few days. Itâs easy to get tunnel vision about this and sometimes itâs just nice to get back in touch with the person you were, before you were the person trying to get pregnant.
I am sure that all men would rather have sex with their non-pregnant wives versus their pregnant wives. Nonetheless, Facebook is filled with many of my friends posing nude with a sheet covering their private parts while they are fully pregnant. Is nothing sacred? We can sexualize almost anything and anyone in our 21st day and age, but nothing is going to make a pregnant woman sexy. More
Being a woman seemed to come with rules, even when I was small. Most of it hinged on being a ‘lady’. You know, âLadies don’t run in the hallway. Ladies don’t climb the monkey bars. Ladies don’t get their clothes dirty. Ladies don’t fart at the dinner table.â I always thought that as I got older, I’d have fewer rules. Instead, more came. And these rules seemed to be hinged on just one idea.
You’ll get a reputation. More
It was the night before we all left for college. I was with my three closest girlfriends, and we were looking for something to do that would capture the gravity of our last night together. We didnât want to drink, because we wanted to remember the night, but we were bored and wanted to do something different besides watch music videos on MTV like usual-so we decided to go to a sex shop. More
I don’t know how we deal with this. I don’t know how we keep our kids, especially our daughters, safe online. I want my own kids to have sex with people that is consensual and safe and healthy, I just don’t want the whole world knowing about it. More
Ok, I love my husband, I do, but I have absolutely no interest in having sex with him. My baby is seven months old and I told him that I had to wait six months (not six weeks as the doctor actually advised) to go at it again. It was a lie, but I honestly couldn’t imagine having him any where near my body. More
Once you are trying to conceive, the mental list of times and places that you have absolutely zero desire to have sex seems to grow. For example, after a very long day of work. Or after a very long night of drinking. Or after a very long day of day drinking. You quickly find yourself scheduling sex with your husband like you would a dental appointment. Because we all know there is a narrow window and Iâll be damned if I canât tell my gynecologist with certainty that âYes, we are timing our intercourse!â More