Topic: parenting advice

Modern Parenting Advice Is Just As Pseudosciency As 19th Century Advice

Modern Parenting Advice Is Just As Pseudosciency As 19th Century Advice

It’s easy to romanticize the past, to talk about a simpler time or how our parents did this and that and we turned out fine. But Friday’s piece by Therese Oneill in The Atlantic sheds some light on 19th and 20th century parenting, and how doctors in the good ole’ days were often just as misinformed as some of the whack-job “experts” lining our bookshelves in modern times. More »

Former New York Times Food Critic Tells Parents To Chill Out

Former New York Times Food Critic Tells Parents To Chill Out

I love listening to people who don’t have children talk about raising children. I’m not being facetious. I really like a childless person’s perspective on parenting. Parenting is so all-consuming, you sometimes forget what it’s like to not be doing it. Focusing on it. Focusing on your child. Sometimes it’s refreshing to be smacked awake by someone who is not in a perpetual parental fog. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone say, What the hell are you doing? More »

The Author Of ‘What To Expect’ Wants Her Own Daughter To Ignore Parenting Advice

The Author Of 'What To Expect' Wants Her Own Daughter To Ignore Parenting Advice

When Heidi Murkoff published What To Expect When You’re Expecting in the 80s, there was almost no parenting advice for naive and innocent young parents to fret over. Murkoff wrote her first book because she found herself unexpectedly pregnant and couldn’t find a “no nonsense guide” to help answer her questions. But now that her own daughter Emma is a mother, her best piece of advice is to skip all the self-help books and mommy forums. More »

Babies Who Nap In Sub-Zero Temps Make Me Feel Like A Paranoid Parent

Babies Who Nap In Sub-Zero Temps Make Me Feel Like A Paranoid Parent

You know how everyone says that eventually we all turn into our mothers? Well, they’re right. My mom has eternally baffled me by insisting that I will catch a cold if I expose my chest to cool air in the winter. Where’s your scarf? Cover up! You’re going to catch a cold! Being the logical being that I am, I have always countered with, Mom, colds are caused by viruses, not cold air. Then I became a mother. During the coldest NYC winter days, my child and I basically became shut-ins because I was sure he would catch a cold if I took him out. More »

A Parent’s New Year’s Resolution: To Stop Worrying So Much About My Parenting

A Parent’s New Year's Resolution: To Stop Worrying So Much About My Parenting

It’s that time of year. Everyone’s deciding whether they’re going to join a gym or start a diet or finally ask their boss for that raise. I have plenty of life goals that I could label as New Year’s Resolutions for the next couple of weeks. Instead, I have a very simple resolution that I think desperately needs some attention. I want to stop worrying so much about my parenting. More »