Topic: miscarriage

Try To Remember That Mother’s Day Sucks For A Lot Of Women

Try To Remember That Mother's Day Sucks For A Lot Of Women

I’ve spoken a lot about the many women who experience loss and don’t talk about it. Well, if you have one of those women in your life, remember today what she has been through – and that this might not be the easiest day for her to endure. When you go through the pain of pregnancy loss – you have been a mother. You have lost a child, although most people won’t treat you that way. More »

I’m Trying To Schedule My Pregnancy Around A Tattoo And A Destination Wedding

I'm Trying To Schedule My Pregnancy Around A Tattoo And A Destination Wedding

We started to do the math. Literally, we began counting the months. If I didn’t want to be about-to-burst, we’d need to wait until at least the summer to start trying. If I wanted to be pregnant but not too pregnant, we’d probably want to conceive around September. If I wanted that piña colada, pregnancy would have to be postponed until after the wedding. More »

Poor Kim Kardashian Has A Sonogramal Break Down In ‘Keeping Up With The Kardashians’ Season 8 Trailer

Poor Kim Kardashian Has A Sonogramal Break Down In 'Keeping Up With The Kardashians' Season 8 Trailer

Pregnant Kim Kardashian has had, so far, a very stressful pregnancy. So much so that a doctor recently paid the reality starlet a visit and told her to not let her Kris Humphries divorce get to her. There’s even further speculation that the mommy-to-be had a miscarriage scare. So leave it to the Kardashian Empire to parlay all that stress and panic into season eight of “Keeping Up With The Kardashians.” More »

Gwyneth Reveals Horrible Experience With Miscarriage And Now I Feel Like A Jerk

Gwyneth Reveals Horrible Experience With Miscarriage And Now I Feel Like A Jerk

I think it’s easy – when you’re not famous, rich, gorgeous, or thin – to poke fun at the lives of those who are. I mean, that’s kind of fair, right? You get to have everything – I get to make fun of you for it. I have been doing this to Gwyneth Paltrow for a while. She’s just such an easy target -what with Jay-Z, Mario Batali, and Madonna as BFF’s, a rockstar husband, and a fabulous life. And she got to have sex with Brad Pitt. Who wouldn’t be a little envious of that? More »

Having A Bad Parent Has Left Me Doubly Afraid Of Becoming A Bad Parent

Having A Bad Parent Has Left Me Doubly Afraid Of Becoming A Bad Parent

I’m not embarrassed to tell you that I was (and am) a particularly complicated woman. And much of this complexity stems from my very dysfunctional childhood, growing up in a house with a father who was the definition of a bad parent.

It’s not really even debatable: My dad was an abusive coke addict for the entirety of the time he was in my life that I can recall. More »

Kim Kardashian Had A Possible Miscarriage Scare, Was Possibly Ordered To Stop Working Out

Kim Kardashian Had A Possible Miscarriage Scare, Was Possibly Ordered To Stop Working Out

Call me crazy, but I feel like miscarriages aren’t exactly the time for jokes. And while Kim Kardashian‘s pregnancy has garnered plenty of snark and sarcasm from every corner of the internet, including our’s, I don’t think a miscarriage scare is the right time for any of that. And according to one media outlet, Kim K and Kanye just had a hell of a scare. More »

My Fear Of Miscarrying Again Is Overriding My Desire For A Baby

My Fear Of Miscarrying Again Is Overriding My Desire For A Baby

In early July 2012, my husband and I decided to stop trying not to have a baby. At the end of July, right after my 29th birthday, I found out I was pregnant. I was not expecting a pregnancy to happen so quickly, although of course I knew it was possible. Then, just as quickly as it happened, it un-happened. I had a miscarriage a week before my eight-week ultrasound was scheduled. The appointment where I would have heard the baby’s heartbeat. Instead, I spent that eighth week in a hellish amount of pain; my miscarriage seemed to go on forever. More »

Catholic Hospitals In The US Put Pregnant Women At Risk By Prioritizing Religion Over Health

Catholic Hospitals In The US Put Pregnant Women At Risk By Prioritizing Religion Over Health

We all remember the tragic death of Savita Halappanavar in Ireland and the national outcry it inspired, with Irish citizens demanding that the country address it’s dangerous abortion laws and the ways that hospital “ethics codes” can end up hurting women. It looks like issue isn’t confined to countries oceans away from the United States. Even here in America, where access to safe abortions is supposed to be a protected right, hospitals are allowed to value the possible life of a fetus over the life of a mother. More »

Beyonce Shares Her Miscarriage Grief In Her HBO Documentary That Everyone Is Already Pumped About

Beyonce Shares Her Miscarriage Grief In Her HBO Documentary That Everyone Is Already Pumped About

Every time I load up my HBO Go to tuck into a “Girls” episode, I, like many others, am treated to Beyonce‘s “Life Is But a Dream” trailer. And while Beyonce’s pregnant tummy and sonogram are pretty prominent details in the clip, now it’s been reported that the Grammy winner also shares details surrounding her first pregnancy — and miscarriage. Maria Guido‘s insistence that ladies need to “speak the eff up” about their miscarriages is catching on! One high profile diva at a time. More »

This Isn’t Just New Year’s Eve, It’s The Anniversary Of My Miscarriage

This Isn’t Just New Year’s Eve, It’s The Anniversary Of My Miscarriage

Today, millions of people will head to bars or parties to celebrate with friends and ring in the new year. They’ll drink champagne and make lots of toasts and completely forget the words to Auld Lang Syne. For years, I was one of those people, bickering with my husband over who would be the designated driver and attending my sister-in-law’s annual party. Now, I’m the lady sitting at home alone, mourning, on the anniversary of my miscarriage. More »

Anonymous Mom: I Lost Twins

Anonymous Mom: I Lost Twins

I don’t even know how to define it. Was it a miscarriage? Or was it a neonatal death? Perhaps a stillbirth. Who the hell knows. All I know is it wasn’t just a miscarriage. I tend to use “miscarriage” because it fits much more neatly in this little box in my head, my heart and my soul that I have created just for it. Maybe miscarriage just sounds a little better. More »