Topic: marriage

After 7 Years Together And Two Kids, I’m Considering Actually Marrying My ‘Husband’

After 7 Years Together And Two Kids, I'm Considering Actually Marrying My 'Husband'

I call the father of my children and boyfriend of seven years my “husband,” even though we aren’t married. It just seems easier that way. It feels a little weird when we stand there as a family and I introduce him as my “boyfriend.” Inevitably, people look at our child and I can almost hear them thinking, “so, is he the father?” I’m also currently eight months pregnant. “Boyfriend” confuses people. More »

Ew! Kim Kardashian Is That Girl Blaming A Mom’s Attachment To Her Kids For Her Cheating Husband

Ew! Kim Kardashian Is That Girl Blaming A Mom's Attachment To Her Kids For Her Cheating Husband

I realize that pointing out a ridiculous or horrible thing Kim Kardashian says is pretty much the bottom of the blogging barrel. The woman says enough ridiculous stuff to keep every celebrity media outlet continuously posting Kardashian updates on the hour, every hour, on into eternity. But her latest shock quote is so disgusting that I just can’t let it go. More »

Gay Couples Aren’t As Healthy As Straight Married Couples Probably Because They’re Stressing About Being Gay Couples

Gay Couples Aren't As Healthy As Straight Married Couples Probably Because They're Stressing About Being Gay Couples

Marriage has been known to have all kinds of nice health benefits, including living longer and having better mental health. But if you’re in same-sex relationship and, for whatever reason, haven’t tied the knot, those lovely bonuses don’t apply to you. So says science. Health disparities brought straight to you from homophobia and the stress it creates.

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Giuliana Rancic Invites Some Ugly Mommy-Shaming By Saying She Puts Her Marriage Before Her Child

Giuliana Rancic Invites Some Ugly Mommy-Shaming By Saying She Puts Her Marriage Before Her Child

It’s an age-old motherhood debate: who do you love more, husband or child? It’s a debate that I’ve always found slightly ridiculous, because I don’t find these two kinds of love to be comparable at all. And still, women have been proclaiming their allegiance and judging those on the other side of the debate for decades now. The most recent mom to throw her hat into the circle of this fight is Giuliana Rancic. More »

STFU Parents: Parents, Please Keep Your Sex And Love Lives Off Facebook

STFU Parents: Parents, Please Keep Your Sex And Love Lives Off Facebook

When you’re writing love notes on Facebook as a parent, suddenly the love can be about so much more stuff that no one wants to hear about. You’ve crossed a threshold of sorts. You’ve wiped your baby’s ass together. You’ve (probably) gone through childbirth together. And those things translate into the kind of intimacy that truly doesn’t belong on social media. Young love is about mushy feelings and “I love you’s.” Parent love is about mushy diapers and “I love you’s.” Neither really deserves a place on Facebook, but the latter often takes things to another, more extreme level. More »

Baby Blues: My Husband Doesn’t Understand My Postpartum Depression

Baby Blues: My Husband Doesn't Understand My Postpartum Depression

We can’t afford healthcare, so I’m not seeing a psychologist. My husband has sort of become my only hope. But his old misconceptions about depression still creep in when he’s sleep deprived or frustrated with the intensity in our lives right now. When I want to just vent or cry, he’ll rattle off solutions in his tough love way. It nearly always turns into an argument. I hate it because I feel like I’m always forcing him to be the strong one and that I’m weighing him down with my problems. More »

The ‘Secret’ To Ben Affleck And Jennifer Garner’s Adorable Marriage Is Mad Men

The 'Secret' To Ben Affleck And Jennifer Garner's Adorable Marriage Is Mad Men

I’m sure the Affleck-Garner family has their strife just like everyone else. Heck, even when Jennifer Garner was wholesomely pregnant with baby Samuel, she expressed regret at marrying young (the first time around). But according to a “source” close to the couple, what makes this nuclear family so sparkly and and Wonder Bread-worthy is that the pair have a Mad Men-style arrangement happening. More »