I didnāt know enough at 20 to question this doctor – a man who presented himself as the be-all-and-end-all of my chance at motherhood ā or why he didnāt schedule me in to have my now defective ovary removed. I was too traumatized to ask for a second opinion.
I did know that Iād always wanted to be a mother and that his reaction to me dissolving into hysterical tears ā āGo outside and wait for a nurseā- was entirely inappropriate. The male nurse I spoke to should not have let me leave the hospital in tears, alone and without anyone at home to meet me. But in my rush to get out of there I didn’t advocate for myself. More »