My brother and my sister and I were all victims of bullies. I probably had it the least bad and my brother definitely had it the worst. For one thing, male bullying tends to be highly physical. For another, he’d skipped a grade in school and had a very late birthday, was still smarter than everyone, and — while athletic — much smaller in size. He was picked on by a group of tyrants and the administrators did nothing. My mom and dad were livid and had gone to the school to no avail. My mother is a public school teacher in the same district and even that didn’t matter. So my dad counseled my brother, in light of the administration doing nothing, to fight back.
I don’t know if it’s that the gang didn’t expect this normally quite peaceful young man to fight their attacks or what, but he surprised the daylights out of them. You won’t be surprised which student was suspended: my brother. You can imagine how much more upset my parents were. More »