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I Went From A Childless Yoga Hater To A Full On Yoga Mom

I Went From A Childless Yoga Hater To A Full On Yoga Mom

I was a few months postpartum when my husband bought me a month of unlimited yoga. It sounded great, but my initial thought was ā€œhow can I possibly leave my baby to go do this?ā€ But I knew I had to.

I had been to yoga a few times before and nothing about it really stuck. I was more accustomed to running off my problems. Sitting with them was never something that seemed desirable. More »

My Over-Giving Family Is Spoiling My Child

My Over-Giving Family Is Spoiling My Child

This past week my family and I celebrated my 28th birthday. One of the reasons it was so enjoyable is that this year I’m really settling into feeling content with my life and not feeling like I need or want anything at all. Just being with my family was more than enough and I was quite happy to have just a few practical gifts, useful things for my home and business, just the way I wanted it to be. No muss, no fuss.

But there was one thing that got me down: my 3-year-old daughter got presents, too. More »

37 Things That Happen In The Day Of A Freelance Writing Toddler Mom

37 Things That Happen In The Day Of A Freelance Writing Toddler Mom

Stumble out of bed with one eye open. Locate middle of the night pee and do a mediocre job cleaning it up with a towel.

Beg your toddler to get dressed while making at least three more empty threats. Say ā€œno you cannot wear your bathing suit to schoolā€ no less than 12 times and commence yoga breathing techniques.

Settle on an outfit that’s only sort of insane looking and tell yourself you don’t care what anyone thinks — your child is a creative genius. More »

I’m Afraid Having More Kids Will Jeopardize My Bond With My Daughter

I’m Afraid Having More Kids Will Jeopardize My Bond With My Daughter

As the mother of a 3 year old, everywhere I go people are asking when I’m gonna pump out the next kid.

ā€œI don’t knowā€ I reply, ā€œMaybe sometime… maybe never.ā€

Maybe, none of your business, I feel like saying. To me, having another baby is such a personal decision and it’s not something I take lightly. It often feels borderline invasive that so many people (who aren’t close friends or family) are interested in the shape of my family unit. What feels even stranger is that so many people I’ve encountered vehemently disagree with parents making the informed decision to have only one child, no matter what that family’s circumstances or how that family came to be in the first place. More »

Why I’ll Never Have Another Hospital Birth

Why I’ll Never Have Another Hospital Birth

Before I had my daughter, I didn’t have a vision of how the birth would go. I didn’t know how much pain to expect or how long it would take until it was time to push, but there was one thing I was pretty sure of — that how I chose to labor would be left up to me. Birthing a child is the most primal thing on the planet and barring any complications, I would do it with as little intervention as possible. That’s how nature intended and I didn’t feel the need to be comfortably numb during something so earth-shattering. Then, I stepped through the hospital doors on a cold January night and found out that these days, they do it a little differently than I imagined. More »