• Thu, May 2 2013

Miracle Twins Born In Ireland Three Months Apart Give A New Meaning To The Term ‘Irish Twins’

shutterstock_89732041Britney Spears’ boys, Jessica Simpson’s daughter, Maxwell, and soon-to-arrive baby brother, my mom and my aunt — these are examples of what I know as “Irish twins” — a derogatory term used to describe children born 10 to 15 months apart, usually to Catholic families, who didn’t use birth control and ended up with children closer in age than anyone in their right mind would have planned.

But this set of “Irish twins” were born in Ireland — 87 days apart. And there was no slight of hand involved — these twins were conceived at the same time and carried by the same mother in the same womb. I’m still wondering how that is possible myself.

Not long after mother Maria Jones-Elliot told friends and family she was pregnant with her third and fourth children — twin girls — a terrible thing happened. Her water broke and labor began just 23 weeks into her pregnancy.

One twin, Amy, was born on June 1, 2012, four months premature and weighing just over one pound. The other twin remained in mom’s womb, which is miracle enough for me. In the U.S. they make a big deal about potential risk of infection once your water breaks. As soon as that happens, you are on a rigid time-clock. Most doctors give 24 hours of labor before declaring an emergency C-section necessary.

It turns out in the case of these Irish twins, the doctors let nature run its course. They let Maria labor for two full days (“grueling” she says) when she finally delivered the first twin, Amy. That’s when things took a bizarre turn.

“Amy was rushed to intensive care. I was exhausted but it wasn’t over – there was another child and so I had to focus.”

But Maria’s contractions finished. She said: “They stopped dead – it was like I’d never even given birth.

“The doctors said they had never seen anything like it.”

“They tried to induce me the next day but nothing happened. Eventually Chris and I said enough is enough. Let nature take its course.” Then came a seemingly endless wait.

Maria explains she and her husband, Chris, were constantly “torn between joy and worry” for the next 87 days.

“I call the girls our little miracles,” she said. “As I held Amy for the first time I stroked my bump and prayed to God. I just wanted my girls to be together and safe and well.

“Usually you experience nothing but joy at the birth of a new baby, but it was so achingly bitter-sweet as both of their lives hung in the balance.

“Amy was fighting for life in an incubator and Katie was struggling to survive in my womb. It was the hardest three months of our lives. But Chris kept saying, ‘Where there’s life there’s hope.’”

At 36 weeks, doctors induced Maria for the second time on August 27th, when Katie was born. I knew twins who call themselves the “older” sibling over just minutes of additional life outside the womb, but Amy is going to have major rank to pull on her sister. She has 87 days on Katie — and she fought for every one of them.

“For a baby delivered at 23 weeks to survive, is a huge achievement from everyone’s point of view,” Dr. Sam Coulter Smith, chief of Dublin’s Rotunda Hospital and an expert in obstetrics and gynecology, told the Irish Times. “For a 23-week twin to survive is even bigger because twins often behave more prematurely than singleton babies. That really is right at the absolute border of viability.”

The twins are thriving now as Amy approaches her first birthday next month — and Katie, well, 87 days behind. The best perk for the girls will surely be no joint birthday parties, a rare special treat for twins. For me, I am dying to know if the girls got on the same feeding/napping schedule, or if one will make the cut off for the school year, while the other one would be red-shirted. There are tons of books and blogs devoted just to raising twins, but as far as I know there is only one that addresses these unique Irish twins — the Guinness Book of World Records.

(photo: Dirk Ott/Shutterstock)

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  • gidget

    That’s amazing.
    Though I’m chuckling a bit at the definition of Irish twins…my (half) sisters are 10.5 months apart, what on earth does that make them?
    (My mom was told you can’t get pregnant when you’re breastfeeding, and apparently she and her first husband didn’t want to wait the usually recommended 6 weeks….gross!)

    • http://twitter.com/carinnjade Carinn Jade

      You are totally right – I revised to 10 months. Tori Spelling told a similar story – she got pregnant with her 4th just 4 weeks after having her 3rd. TMI takes on a new feeling when it’s your mom!!

    • CleaK

      My OB told me he had a patient who had twice come into a 6 wk appt after giving birth only to discover she was pregnant again. She had 5 kids and this happened with, I think, babies number 3 and 5. Blows my mind.

      Also, my sister and I are impossibly close in age (a matter of weeks) but we aren’t biologically related. We do often tell people a story like this to explain how we can be sisters and so close in age-the real story is complicated and lying is more fun. On top of that, the cut off for kindergarten does fall in between our birthdays so she was just always a year ahead in school. I really was the best of both worlds: a sister so close in age that we were close friends but I had my own birthday.

  • jessica

    Oh my. I can’t even imagine. I would be an absolute basket case. I’m so glad everything turned out so well for everyone

  • http://www.facebook.com/RetiredSceneQueen Emmali Lucia

    Holy crap. That’s… I don’t even know what that is, unbelievable? Amazing?

    • http://twitter.com/carinnjade Carinn Jade

      Worthy of the Guinness Book of World Records, I’d say!!

  • outlaw mama

    This is such a beautiful story. I hear so many tragic childbirth stories. This one reminds me that miracles happen.

  • Masha

    Nice story. However I must say that my water broke 6 weeks before my due date but labor didn’t start, and since I was carrying a baby with the heart defect the doctors did not want me give birth for until I was at least 38 weeks…they kept me in the hospital and pumped all kinds of antibiotics into me but did not induce. The baby came on her own time a bit over a week later though. 6 weeks of NICU and a couple of surgeries later and she’s a thriving 18 mo old, with a 2 month old sister….I guess by being born a month earlier they are 16 month apart and thus are outside the 10-15 mo time frame to be qualified as Irish twins :)

  • Goliadkin

    It’s “sleight” of hand.

  • mrfinn

    The description of IrishTwins as ‘derogatory’ seems a bit harsh. I have only heard it used in a faily light hearted humorous way.

  • liz

    My new obgyn (i was seeing a special dr with my last son due to high risk) brought the term”Irish twins” up at my last appt… i miscarried in January of last yr to find out 2 wks later i was pregnant again and delivered my son Jaxxon Oct 30th (2 weeks early) and learned a few months back that 9 days before his 1st birthday he will have a little brother or sister(this definitely wasn’t planned) this will definitely have my hands full because i have a daughter who will turn 6 on Nov 5th (i love the 5yr span between my daughter and son but got to get ready for the extra bundle of joy)

  • elisiah87

    I had my son on April 4 ,2014 and am due with baby #3 April 14,2015.. but we have my baby around the 6th