The other night, someone had posted a close up of her eye infection. I almost puked. The entire whites of her eye were blood red. There was another photo of her three days after taking eye drops and the white part of her eye was now only half blood red. It still made me sick to my stomach. If I had an eye infection that bad, you can bet your butt I would not leave my house, let alone take a close up photo and post it.
But then I then saw a photo posted by one of my old friends. She’s the type of friend that even when we donāt talk in months, we can pick up where we left off as if we had talked yesterday. She is constantly posting photos of her son on Facebook, which is completely normal for a parent these days. In fact, mostly all I post now are photos of my children.
The difference between her 6-year-old and that of others is that her son seems to be a cross-dresser. Iām not talking wearing nail polish. Her son wears tutus and pearls and a lot of pink, often dressing as Cinderella. There are numerous photos of him in dresses. When I last spoke to my friend, about six weeks ago, she said, āI just never knew that my son would be like that.ā
She didnāt say this in any negative way. She obviously is proud of her son and loves him to death. It could be a phase. But all our friends, especially her close friends, LOVE these photos of son wearing tutus with a string of pearls around his neck or trying on dresses. The comments are always, āAdorable!ā or, āSo cute!āĀ The photos are damn cute.
I think, although no one will admit it, that she is very brave. Actually, Iām not so sure if she is courageous or more just showing unconditional love. She doesnāt give a damn how her son dresses and she will post him wearing clips in his hair just as often as she posts photos of her daughter baking.
I had a friend of my fiancĆ©ās over while I was scrolling down her page and he took a look and said aloud, āI would NEVER do that to my son. Never. I would never let him wear dresses let alone post them.ā
I kind of wanted to tell him to get the fuck out of my house, because a) this was my friend he was talking about and b) why does he CARE?Ā I think itās fantastic she posts these photos.