• Wed, Feb 6 - 10:30 am ET

Hats Off To The Florida Judge Who Sent A Teen To Jail For Cursing In Court

how to discipline teenagersI’m going to sound like a 70-year-old grandpa for a minute here. I want to prepare you.

Some young people just need to be taught respect. They need to be taught that running their mouths at authority figures is not funny or cool or strong. It’s ignorant. So when a Florida judge leveled some harsh penalties at an 18-year-old girl who looked at her arraignment like a joke, I didn’t think it was overstepping or abusing his power. I thought, “Thank you for teaching that kid a lesson!”

Penelope Soto is a young Florida woman who was being charged with drug possession, specifically prescription Xanax. From the beginning of her court appearance, she giggled and joked. She played with her hair a lot. Apparently, she wasn’t capable of looking down, seeing her bright orange jumpsuit, and realizing that she was appearing in a court of law.

At first, the judge simply admonished her. “This is not a joke,” he told her. But as she continued to get more flippant, he got irritated. When she sauntered off with an “Adios” after the judge set bail, that’s when she pushed things too far. And here’s where the life lessons come.

First, the judge doubled her bail from $5,000 to $10,000. Instead of accepting the obvious punishment for her behavior and demeanor, the girl got angry. She flipped off the judge. She yelled, “Fuck you!” She acted like a child throwing a temper tantrum. And for that, the judge called her back to court and sentenced her to 30 days in jail for criminal contempt.

This young woman is just another teen who probably doesn’t understand the serious consequences of her actions. But she needs to. She needs to know that losing your temper is not acceptable. She needs to know that blowing off or blowing up at authority figures will not further your cause. This teenager obviously needs a lesson in appropriate behavior. And this judge taught her one.

It might seem like a steep punishment for a first-time offender who lost her cool, but hopefully those 30 days will give her a little time to figure out how legals adults are expected to behave.

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  • Fish

    Am I the only one who saw that video and thought she was high as a kite?

    • Kitiem3000

      She was was being charged with drug possession,so I guess it’s only appropriate.

    • Persistent Cat

      I thought the same thing. When he asked her if she was on drugs at that moment, her reaction was hilarious.

      And why must young women always play with their hair like that? Or is it just women with extensions?

    • Justme

      Maybe a nervous action? My daughter plays with my long hair when she’s nervous.

    • http://www.facebook.com/paul.white.3532507 Paul White

      Tip one: do not act visibly intoxicated while at a hearing for possession. Bad idea.

    • Justme

      I didn’t see her as high, but instead I think she was trying to play the “I’m just a silly little girl” routine so that the judge would have mercy on her. And then when that didn’t work, she got pissed off at him.

  • Justme

    And this is why I am not a lawyer.

  • http://www.facebook.com/majunche.pityyankee Majunche Pity Yankee

    so $5,000 more for saying adios? wow

    • Local Mom 29

      Hey, she’s got all that jewelry she can sell to pay for it. Her conduct was outrageous, and she deserved what she got and probably a lot more.

    • http://www.facebook.com/majunche.pityyankee Majunche Pity Yankee

      Hey for the horses fuck off ass hole, go ask the faget to put me in jail too mofo

    • Local Mom 29

      I would be offended, if your reply made any sense…

    • LindsayCross

      I would delete it for offensiveness… if it made any sense. But it’s so ridiculous that I’m not sure it’s worth it…

  • Tea

    I first read this and thought she must be 14 or 15, then re-read and realized she wasn’t.

    She’s 18, at this point she’s an actual adult, and really should have known better.

  • http://twitter.com/that_darn_kat Kat

    While I’ve never been in legal trouble, I had one time in high school where I was sent to the principal. Best way to get the least sentence possible? You be very polite, speak well, and don’t fidget. She was in an orange jumpsuit, so couldn’t dress well, but she should have put her hair aside. Whether she was trying to play the dumb girl, or simply was, everything she did was flippant and showed no respect for the judge or the court. You aren’t with friends, don’t be a smarta$$ with the adios bit. Jeez. I’m glad her bail was upped and she was also put in jail. Maybe she’ll learn to give the judge a tiny bit of respect, next time.