• Thu, Nov 15 2012

STFU Parents: 6 Signs Of A Car Seat Fanatic On Facebook

One of the outcomes of today’s overzealous parents is the Niche Parent who focuses on one particular parenting skill. These are the parents who are MORE than happy (and if you’ve met one of them, you know what I mean) to discuss various breastfeeding tips or how to cook the perfect placenta soufflé or how to get your baby to sleep through the night. I’m not sure exactly where the urge comes from, and if the people who fixate on these things are just natural overachievers or extremely bored (or a combination thereof), but I’ve noticed that a lot of moms of late have been leaping into action as advocates with parenting “expertise.”

Now, I’m not discrediting the people who are trained and/or certified in doing whatever it is they do. I’ve heard stories about lactation consultants and sleep therapists who have helped parents tremendously, and I’m not suggesting that advocates aren’t encouraging and necessary. We all need help from time to time, and it’s nice to know there’s someone out there who has a skill set specific to our needs in almost facet of life and health.

However, there’s a difference between being a trained specialist who helps people that actually want the help, and being a person who nags, lectures, or brags about knowing every freakin’ thing there is to know about cloth diapering. One of the areas of “expertise” that seems to be a growing field is the Car Seat Specialist. Everywhere I turn these days, there’s a mom fluent in car seat safety who is “instructing” her friends (and/or strangers) on the constantly-changing guidelines and regulations that actually drive many parents crazy. While some moms are mourning the loss of yet another car seat due to a recall, or buying yet another car seat to accommodate their 8-year-olds, or simply going about their business by practicing daily car seat safety, other moms are gleefully researching and espousing on every nugget they can find on up-to-the-minute car seat know-how.

As far as I can tell, there are two types of car seat fanatics: the parent who lectures on car seat safety, and the parent who gets off on car seat safety. They’re pretty different breeds, but both have a common interest in ensuring the protection of children in transport. And while I respect the safety stance, I find both types of “expert” to be overly emphatic and obsessive. I’ll be running a post on The Lecturer over on STFU, Parents, but first, let’s take a look at the mom who gets her kicks by talking about car seats as if they’re her new favorite toy.

1. Casual Updates 

The first way you can tell a person is a fanatic is if she randomly updates her status to include exciting tidbits that translate to, “I am in the same space as a car seat right now. :)”

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  • Nunya Biznez

    SO FUNNY!!! I just had a friendly “discussion” with some facebook friends. After awhile I get sick of hearing about how I suck as a mom because I have my kids in boosters instead of radian 80′s but shoot, they ride the school bus without a seatbelt at all! I think having them in a 11 dollar booster seat is fine.

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  • mommylonglegs

    Kaye is cray.

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  • http://twitter.com/mtdoonmeister Doc Holliday

    I’ve been a paramedic for 30 years. The first call I ever went on that involved a carseat, (early ’80′s), was one where the parent had driven off with the kid in the carseat, on top of the car… The kid was fine. Always seemed a little ironic to me…

  • Caitlin

    I’ll admit, I’m pretty big on carseat safety. Of course, I’m big on anything when it comes to the safety of my child. BUT I don’t lecture other people about it. The only time I will say something is if I see a kid in carseat that could actually be in danger because they are not strapped in correctly, and I say it the nicest way possible. Especially if said child belongs to a close friend. They way I look at it, if I’m unknowingly putting my child in harm’s way, then I would definitely want someone to point it out to me. Most of the time the issue is that the parent just didn’t know. I know I knew nothing about carseats until I had my daughter. It’s just that when I see a friend of mine forward facing their 3 month old, with the chest piece by the belly button, shoulder straps hanging off the shoulders, and wearing a big bulky jacket, then I feel like I should at least say something haha.

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  • Kaitlin Luksa

    Lol this is comedy gold.