• Mon, Sep 17 - 3:37 pm ET

Boys Scouts Protected Child Molesters So I’m Making My Son Quit

There is another Boy Scouts child molester scandal brewing with new reports to be released within the next few weeks that are proving that I was right about not wanting my son to join. I didn’t want my son to join the Boy Scouts. Between their bigoted policies against homosexuals and their intolerance towards agnostics and atheists I have never liked the idea of my son being involved in Boy Scouts. This coupled with a a 1980s pedophile case that ordered the organization to pay nearly $20 million in damages has always left a bad taste in my mouth about the Boy Scouts. But my son badly wanted to participate. A lot of his classmates and friends are Boy Scouts. My husband agreed that I didn’t have to go to meetings so I reluctantly let my son join. And now I’m going to make him quit due to some awful new reports that are developing concerning the one-hundred-year-old organization.

From Reuters.com:

The Boy Scouts of America could face a wave of bad publicity as decades of records of confirmed or alleged child molesters within the U.S. organization are expected to be released in coming weeks.

On Sunday, the Los Angeles Times reported the organization failed to report allegations of sex abuse of scouts by adult leaders and volunteers to police in hundreds of cases from 1970 to 1991. In some cases, the Boy Scouts helped the accused “cover their tracks,” the paper said.

From Slate.com:

The Los Angeles Times reviewed 1,600 of the Boy Scouts’ confidential “perversion files” dated from 1970 to 1991 and found more than 500 cases in which officials learned about abuse directly. In around 80 percent of those cases, there is no record of the Scouts reporting the claims of abuse to authorities and in more than 100 cases there seems to be clear evidence of efforts to hide the abuse. Worst of all, there are clear signs that some of the abusers went on to hurt other children.

The Boy Scouts claim that they are no taking extra precautions to protect children within their organization and released a statement on Sunday:

“The BSA (has) continuously enhanced its multi-tiered policies and procedures, which now include background checks, comprehensive training programs and safety policies,” the statement said.

To me this is a case of too little, too late. I don’t care if a kid is never abused again within the Boy Scouts (although that would be a great thing, of course), for me it’s also the knowledge that this organization turned a blind eye towards the sexual abuse of its members. Like we’ve also seen with the Penn State scandal and the Catholic church. My own son may never be hurt by a leader in the Boy Scouts, but that doesn’t negate all the kids who came before him who have been hurt. And I can’t support an organization who ever participated in such a repulsive coverup, no matter what good work they do in communities.

My son will probably be disappointed in my decision to pull him out of Boy Scouts, but I can’t allow him to be involved in a group that ever allowed children to be hurt in this way. We’ll just have to find another way for him to participate in camping activities and earning merit badges.

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  • Lastango

    I must admit I’m not seeing the benefit of pulling your son out of Scouts, particularly in view of your son’s enthusiasm for all the good thing scouting offers. When it comes to purity, we have to saw it off someplace. To take an extreme example, when you and your son go camping it will be very difficult to pitch your tent only on ground we didn’t take by force from someone. Also, these days, at the Boy Scouts of America organization, there’s probably hardly anyone around who worked there from 1970 to 1991.
    That doesn’t mean I think your choice is invalid, only that it’s not what I personally would do.

    • http://www.xojane.com/author/eve Eve Vawter

      ” when you and your son go camping it will be very difficult to pitch your ten on ground we didn’t take by force from someone.” this is so very very sadly true.

  • http://www.facebook.com/courtney.wooten Courtney Lynn

    I agree with your decision. I’ve been quoted in one of Koa’s articles about my feelings on the Scouts for the same reasons you listed. Now one of my concerns would be, well, they protect pedophiles! I want my son involved in an organization that protects children from pedophiles.

  • K.

    My husband was in a troop and one of the leaders molested several of the boys (thankfully, not my husband). His mother found out about this years after he had left the Scouts, but she still feels horrible about it to this day, even though it didn’t involve her son and it didn’t involve her because she didn’t know. She STILL feels (we’re talking about 20 years later) that just being there, on the sidelines, giving money and volunteering her time was tantamount to tacit approval.

    Eve, your reaction makes sense to me for these reasons and the reasons you write about. There is a difference between an organization that has had incidents of sexual abuse among its employees and has dealt with it properly, and those who allow for incredible harm to be done to children. I wouldn’t feel comfortable either to have my child participate in activities sponsored by an organization that actively worked to protect and employ sex offenders–AND give further opportunities to such people to continue their behavior. That is the same thing as actively working to literally ruin the lives of the victims–young children and future men, precisely whom the Scouts are supposed to “serve.”

  • http://twitter.com/VivianSharpe5 Vivian Sharpe

    I’m so proud of you for taking a stand and having a voice! I hope others will follow. We’ve got to start somewhere to make a change.

  • http://www.facebook.com/paul.white.3532507 Paul White

    I’m late to the party but…does anyone at the national level that worked there during this still work there? This happened years ago; if I held everything a company ever did against them forever and ever I’d have a hell of a time joining any organizations, using electronics, driving a Japanese or German car, drinking Russian vodka, etc. What’s the statute of limitations on misbehavior by a group?

  • Johan

    I am a scout leader and abuse is pretty much unheard of today with our 2 deep leadership and personally it just sounds to me you either hate Christians, men, or both and since I am both you’ll really like me.
    I only joined because I rarely let my son out of my sight and he is a scout, oh and you say we protect molesters, wrong!, before joining all boys are talked to specifically about sexual abuse and are given specific instructions on reporting it, and if we receive a report or even suspect abuse and don’t report about it we go to jail.
    I really don’t know how they do things where you are but if your son wants to be a scout and you’re so worried about him, join up or have hubby do it because then you know what all goes on and don’t give me that load of ” I don’t have time” crap.
    Besides wouldn’t you just love to show those men up? that you’re so much better than them, ew or maybe you’ll get to put someone away.

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