We’ve all felt like a shitty mom at least once or twice, right? Some days I feel like the worst mom in the world, tbh. It’s a lot to handle! But if you ever want to feel validated in your success as a mom, just turn on your tv. Not just for entertainment, but to know that no matter how bad you miffed the day, at least you weren’t as bad as the moms on our list of the 20 worst tv moms of all-time. Sure, you might have made your kid cry today. But did you kill his wife? No? Then you’re good!

1st on the list of worst tv moms: Julie Cooper from The O.C.

Julie Cooper took gold-digging to new heights on The O.C. And then, she slept with her daughter’s ex-boyfriend. Thanks, mom.